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We've Unlocked the Secret for Successful Long Lasting Gay Relationships

It’s not how you look, how much money you make, or where you live that’s keeping you single… 

Follow these three simple steps to raise your energy, boost your confidence, and build passionate relationships. 

In A Gay Man’s Guide to Love you will discover strategies that have helped hundreds of gay men rapidly improve their love lives including:

  • Learning the secret to attract the love of your life
  • Attracting the right kind of guy while being your authentic self
  • Stopping your unconscious mind from sabotaging relationships

“I’ve made more progress in this program in just three and a half months than I did in 10 years of therapy.” 


Gay Man Thriving Academy Student

“Now, I am probably dating more than at any other time in my life – and I’m 64!”


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About The Authors

Hello, we are Andrew Sartory and Zach Bulls, the founders of Gay Man Thriving. We have a dream where gay men of all shapes, sizes, personalities, abilities, and color feel confident and free to express themselves fully and authentically. We are fiercely committed to ending the loneliness epidemic in the gay male community – one man at a time.

Zach Bulls, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP

Founder, Gay Man Thriving

Zach is deeply passionate about living a life that is truly authentic and working with other gay men to help them bring to surface their best selves. He’s developed dozens of workshops that have profoundly impacted the gay community. Areas of expertise include teaching men to create connections with authenticity and meaning.

Zach has come a long way on his journey to become the coach, husband and man he is today. Less than 10 years ago, as a recovering meth addict with a new HIV/AIDS diagnosis, Zach wanted to end his life. He struggled with codependency and pretending that everything was ok while hating himself on the inside. After years of working with coaches and mentors to face his shadows and build self confidence, Zach has discovered his innate value, learned to stop pretending and trust in himself to not only survive, but to thrive. 

He is a certified core energy coach, workshop facilitator, and an avid exercise enthusiast. In his spare time you will find him working out at the gym, spending time with his husband, being outdoors, or watching RuPaul’s Drag Race.

Zach has spent over 2,000 hours coaching gay men 1-on-1 or in a group setting.

Andrew Sartory, M.Ed.

Founder, Gay Man Thriving

Andrew is gifted at helping gay men uncover their best selves through creating transformative spaces and experiences that lead to inner freedom and self-mastery.

He offers a holistic approach to clients who are ready to take a leap into a new way of living and being. His clients find him when they are ready to make major transitions in their lives, especially in finding new love or building a new passionate career.

An avid learner, he holds a variety of additional certifications including EFT, Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner, Kalish Method of Functional Medicine, and thousands of hours in self-study meditation.

During his spare time you can find Andrew exploring nature, traveling, enjoying quality time with his husband and best friends, and deepening his spiritual practices. He’s always learning something new and loves sharing it with the world.

“I have a gay community for the first time. I came out 40 f*cking years ago and I’ve never really felt like part of my community, but I do now. I’m home.” – Maddox

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A Gay Man's Guide To Love

A Gay Man’s Guide to Love walks you through three simple steps to raise your energy, boost your confidence, and help you build passionate relationships.