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We are Zach Bulls and Andrew Sartory, the founders of the Gay Man Thriving Movement and the Gay Man Thriving Academy.

We are fiercely committed to ending the loneliness epidemic in the gay male community, one man at a time.

If you’re looking for proven professionals who can guide you to overcome the common obstacles that keep gay men single or attracting toxic relationships, such as…

  • Guys being shallow and judgmental
  • Guys just looking for hookups, and not being honest
  • Wondering if you’re too old or not physically attractive enough
  • Not being able to keep the passion alive
  • Not knowing how to get more dates that turn into 2nd or 3rd dates
  • Feeling shy and lacking confidence when it comes to romance (even if you’re confident everywhere else in your life)

Then you’ve come to the right place.

With a growing coaching and support staff of 8 and over 100 students, there are no programs or services out there that deliver the results our GMT Academy provides.

We’ve had years of experience working with thousands of gay men with similar concerns and guiding them towards attracting their life parters and surrounding themselves with the best community of friends they could have imagined.

Our mission is BIGGER than any out there. We aim to help you create your own paradise on earth by feeling f*cking amazing on the inside, having an incredibly passionate relationship with the man of your dreams, and enjoying massive amounts of love and connection everywhere you go.

Years ago, it became so clear to us that the gay male community lacked, well, REAL COMMUNITY. That there were so many gay men who couldn’t find loving romantic relationships…

…and so many gay men that also lacked real supportive gay friendships.

And we discovered that there was a massive loneliness epidemic, with gay men being more likely to grow old alone and without adequate social support than straight men and women and lesbian women.

And on top of that, seeing there are MAJOR issues of gay men being harsh and cruel to one another… we thought this had to change.

Meanwhile, after going to hell and back ourselves many times…
We felt like we had literally created our own personal paradise on earth… …by attracting each other and building an incredible relationship…
and also surrounding ourselves with an amazing community of friends who love us for who we are.

And we knew that we had to do something for our other gay brothers, like you. We wanted everyone to feel the love that we were feeling.

Because deep down, we know each and every one of you is capable of THRIVING in the most important ways and taking your life to whole new levels of love, joy, and passion… and having an incredibly passionate romantic relationship.

And even creating YOUR own paradise on earth, surrounded by people you love to be with.

What really lights us up about this work is seeing men of all different ages, backgrounds, and challenges rapidly achieve things that they didn’t think were possible even just 6 months prior… and feeling more love and connection than they even knew was possible.

“I didn’t even know it could feel this amazing!” is not uncommon for us to hear.

Our favorite part of the coaching academy is the elite community of men that come together and make it feel like family. After working with thousands of men and experiencing hundreds of gay events… we have never seen such a powerful, loving, supportive community of gay men come together to vulnerably work on themselves and achieve their biggest dreams. Lifelong friendships are formed in the Gay Man Thriving Coaching Academy and time after time our students say it gives them the brotherhood they’ve longed for.

What sets us apart from other gay and relationship experts is that we’ve created proven systems, curriculums, and step-by-step roadmaps that get men the best results time after time after time. Whether you’ve been divorced 3 times and are afraid you’ll only have another toxic relationship… or whether you’ve over 50 and have never had a relationship with a man… or anywhere in-between, the coaching academy systems are proven to help gay men like you attract the happiest relationships you’ve ever had in your entire life.

You can feel confident trusting our coaching academy to guide you towards overcoming whatever blocks you have in the way of a healthy, passionate romance, one step at a time.

Between the two of us, we’ve obtained credentials and experience that have helped us create the world’s most effective curriculums when it comes to empowering gay men in love, relationships, and personal development.

Zach Bulls, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP

  • Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation
  • Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner
  • Over 900 hours coaching Gay Men
  • Thousands of hours in self-study, research and more

Andrew Sartory, M.Ed.

  • Masters Degree in Health Behavior and Health Education
  • Professionally Trained in Clinical Emotional Freedom Techniques
  • Certified Breathwork Facilitator and Teacher
  • Over 1,200 hours of coaching and mentoring
  • Thousands of hours in self-study, meditation, research and more
  • 3.5 years of graduate level education in integrative and energy medicine

On a more personal note… here’s 5 things about us that might surprise you:

  1. We disagree A LOT. We’re both very passionate and both think very differently. And as leaders of the Gay Man Thiving Movement and Coaching Academy… there’s TONS of decisions we disagree on. And when things have gotten heated, we find a way to come together in the end and grow stronger together.

2. Zach is HIV+ and Andrew is HIV-. We have pride in telling people this because there are still so many men uneducated about what it means to be HIV+ and we are passionate about breaking down the stigma once and for all.

3. We met while we were volunteering for a political campaign. We didn’t even know if the other was gay or not upon first meeting… We weren’t trying to “meet guys”. We were volunteering and trying our best to make the world a happier place to be. That’s what initially brought us together.

4. We don’t have kids yet, but look forward to starting a family of our own within the next three years 🙂

5. Four months after moving in together, Andrew got toxic mold illness… leading us both to move in with Andrew’s first boyfriend for 2.5 weeks until they found a new place!

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Our mission at Gay Man Thriving is to empower gay men all over the world to release their deepest fears, build unshakeable confidence and have the lasting, passionate long-term relationship they’ve always wanted.

The Purpose of Gay Man Thriving Group:

    • Educate men about increasing their Energetic Attraction
    • Help men to have the relationship of their dreams with the man of their dreams
    • Provide a SAFE, judgment free zone for men to share their challenges and ask for support and advice
    • Inspire men to get out of their comfort zone and overcome their fears
    • Teach men about implementing our Energetic Attraction Formula
    • Build community and allow men to connect with other like-minded, growth-oriented men.
    • Provide a safe space where men can learn how to thrive in other areas of life.
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