When I first connected with Zach and Andrew at age 63, I was sitting in a non-ending loop… deeply wanting connection… a boyfriend to share my life with, and continuous self-sabotage preventing it all. I had a voice in my head that said NO one would want to be with me. The Gay Man Thriving program helped me realize that people actually DO like to be with me and helped me finally stop the negative self talk. And now I’m so happy with my boyfriend — he’s great. And most importantly, I’m much more at peace with myself and no longer feel worried about the future.